- 2 years ago
What drives men to romance us, take us out to dinner, and do things for us? It’s because they are interested in us, they enjoy seeing us smile. And don’t we like making them happy just as much as they like making us happy? So what right do we have to order them around? I’ve seen guys spend exorbitant amounts on their girlfriends only to be ordered around, becoming miserable, feeling caught between trying to make them happy and being miserable, yelled at for not trying enough when they were doing their best or they were just tired of being ordered around all the time. All this for just a few gems of benevolence from the one they desire, care for, and love.
Ladies, it wouldn’t hurt us to be nicer to our boyfriends, even though sometimes we feel as if we’re being more than generous by gracing them with our presence. Maybe we could make dinner for them one night, make them a snack, or get them their favorite takeout. It wouldn’t hurt us.
At the very least, we could say thank you after dinner.